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High-Conflict Divorce Coaching

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Imagine being supported through your divorce from a high-conflict individual by someone who understands the intricacies of what you are going through better than anyone… because she has gone through it herself. 

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During your free consultation we will take a look at your specific situation and discuss how my services can help you navigate your high-conflict divorce.

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So Happy
You Are Here...

Whether you are unsure how to leave your toxic marriage, are just starting your journey in the family court system, or are years into your custody battle, I am here to help. I am a certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach specializing in strategies to help women who are divorcing a high conflict individual. I have personally gone through a high conflict divorce and custody battle for over eight years. With my years of personal experience and my training as a High-Conflict Divorce Coach, I see your divorce/custody battle through a unique lens. 

A high-conflict divorce doesn’t have to destroy you
(or your kids)

When we work together, I can help you:

  • Learn yellow rock communication techniques.
  • Introduce strategies to protect your children from the conflict.
  • Set boundaries with your narcissist, high-conflict ex.
  • Document efficiently and effectively. 
  • Safeguard yourself from alienation claims. 
  • Recognize post separation abuse tactics. 
  • Focus on self care in order to protect your well being. 
  • Navigate the family court system.
  • Better understand high conflict individuals and their behavior patterns.
  • Formulate a plan to leave your toxic relationship.

High-conflict divorce
dream team

High-conflict divorce coach

A high-conflict divorce coach (HCDC) becomes your strategy partner, getting into the trenches and assuming position as a trusted team member. Your HCDC complements the work of your attorney and mental health provider.

Family Law Attorney

Hiring a well known, reputable attorney is key. He/she will be your voice and advocate in the family court system.

Therapist

A trauma informed therapist who understands narcissist abuse is a valuable asset.

Hi, I’m Kristi

—and I’m so glad you’ve found your way here.

I’m a Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach, and this isn’t just a profession for me—it’s personal. This is a calling born from my own lived experience as a survivor of an abusive, high-conflict marriage and an even more traumatic post-separation journey. 

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Yes, you will rise from the ashes, but the burning comes first. For this part, darling, you must be brave.

by Kalen Dion

"Kristi is a graduate of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. This eight-week, intensive course focuses on the difficult dynamics of high-conflict divorce and child custody battles. Our program focuses on the intricacies of post separation abuse and our coaches are trained that it only takes one toxic, abusive or personality disordered individual to create a high-conflict situation. Kristi will be an amazing resource and advocate for those attempting to navigate the family court system. It was an honor to have Kristi in our program and I look forward to cheering her on in her advocacy work."

- Tina Swithin

CEO/Founder of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program
“Working with Kristi was truly invaluable during my high-conflict divorce. She didn’t just offer advice—she validated my feelings, helped me understand what to expect, and provided a clear long-term strategy. Unlike many professionals, she has personally experienced this type of situation, so her guidance comes from both knowledge and lived experience. She didn’t just tell me to document everything—she showed me how to do it effectively. She also emphasized the importance of self-care, which made a real difference in managing the stress of the process. If you’re navigating a high-conflict divorce and need someone who truly understands, I highly recommend Kristi. Her support, insight, and compassion made all the difference for me.”

T.K.

You are strong, resilient, and capable of navigating this challenging time. My mission is to support women navigating high-conflict divorces — offering the kind of guidance, strength, and compassion I longed for during my own journey.

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“And just as the Phoenix rose from the ashes, she too will rise. Returning from the flames, clothed in nothing but her strength, more beautiful than ever before.”

— Shannen Heartzs

"I’ve been where you are, and I remember wishing someone could truly understand. Today, I show up for women the way I needed someone to show up for me."

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